10 Ways To Drive Your Man Wild

Are you looking for new ways to drive your man crazy? Creativity and confidence is all that is required. Break out and allow yourself to explore someplace new and leave your comfort zone behind for awhile. Don’t be afraid to try new things even if they leave you with a lump in your throat and your heart beating erratically.  Surprising him with the unexpected can be the biggest success for a turn on. Our insecurities are often our reason for playing it safe sexually, but you would be surprised at what thinking outside of the box can do for your partner, not to mention yourself. Here are just 10 ways to start you off that will drive him wild. With a bit of imagination and confidence this list can be never-ending.

1. Act out your passion – When making love don’t just go through the motions. Let loose and act out your desires as you commit fully to what you are doing. It will drive him wild knowing that you are enjoying the sex as much as he is.

2. Express yourself – Verbalize the admiration that you have for him, his body and the things that he does. Boosting his ego and turning him on will make him feel sexy and he won’t be able to keep his hands to himself.

3. Surprise him with oral sex – Drive him wild by performing oral sex when he least expects it. Eg: wake him up by sucking on his morning wood, show your appreciation when he’s doing the dishes, or make a long drive interesting and surprise him while he’s driving...

4. Stroke him from behind – Approach your man from behind and emulate the way he would touch himself, all the while kissing his neck and shoulders.

5. Let him watch – Masturbate in front of your man as if you are all alone. There is an almost certain guarantee that he will not be able to keep his hands off you long enough to finish solo.

6. Shower time fun – Massage him in the shower when you are washing him, including a scalp massage as you wash his hair.  But be sure to leave the most sensitive part till last and attend to it thoroughly for an explosive finish.

7. Take Control – Use a little dominance and boss him around a bit. Don’t be afraid to get a little firm when he is disobedient to your commands. By taking control you are radiating confidence that will drive him wild and make him want to do anything you desire.

8. Talk dirty – in the right situation and circumstances a man hearing you say filthy words seductively, particularly if you are generally curse free, can really turn a man on.

9. Let it out – Men like nothing more to hear your moans and expressions that come from him pleasuring you. Men like to know when they are doing something right. Go all out and let him know when he is hitting the spot or that you are about to reach climax.

10. Strip Tease – Dress up in some sexy lingerie and provocatively remove the layers to the beat of music playing in the background. Give him his own personal strip show that will leave him completely satisfied, instead of teased and penniless. You can find a range of affordable and striking lingerie here.

Remember, a man who is regularly surprised by your efforts can prevent you and your partner from falling into a rut or losing the spark.  A man whose girlfriend can drive him wild and keep him guessing, is a happy man.

Happy 2nd Birthday!

Confidence is Key Lingerie is turning two! To celebrate entering our third year of bringing you a wide range of affordable sexy lingerie and stimulating battery operated adult toys, we are throwing a party! The party being 50% off store-wide for the whole day on Thursday 18th of April 2013 and you are all invited.  


This is a Facebook only sale. Our facebook page can be found here. Orders are to be placed by contacting us via PM :) See what we have at: www.confidenceiskeylingerie.com.au  If you are having trouble PM'ing us please email: admin@confidenceiskeylingerie.com.au

Postage for all 50% off sales will be a discounted flat rate of $5.00. Please remember to make orders through email or pm as the discounted rates are not set up on the website. Offer only valid in Australia.

A reminder that all stock is limited. First order received for low stock will be served in order. I apologize in advance if something runs out :(  Sale will end at Midnight on 18th of April 2013.  So why not reap the rewards of our getting older and spoil yourself with something naughty.. or equally nice :)  Hip Hip Hooray!! Hip Hip Hooray!! 

10 Sex Tips for Women

1. Practice Foreplay – Some couples find themselves skipping over all the foreplay and going straight to the deed.  This means less excitement and less satisfaction.

2. Break Routine – Do not make the mistake of getting stuck in a routine.  The more spontaneous sex is, the more satisfying it is.  It is beneficial to remember that there is more to sex then an orgasm. 

3. Visual Stimulation – Stimulate your partner visually with sexy lingerie.  It may not stay on very long, but you will feel and act sexy wearing it and he will have fun taking it off.  You can find a range of sexy and equally affordable lingerie here.

4. Communicate – Tell your partner what drives you crazy beneath the sheets.  If you feel embarrassed doing this, settle for expressing approval when he/she does something that you enjoy.

5. Tease each other – Try prolonging your orgasms.  Make it last longer.  When you finally allow yourself to give in to the sensation, the intensity will be mind blowing. 

6. Sexy Shower – Get naked for a different reason and take a shower together.  The act of washing your partner is incredibly sensual and can often lead to a passionate sexual encounter.

7. Share your toys – It is surprising how much of a turn on it can be for couples to let your partner use your sex toy collection on/with you.  You can find affordable toys here.

8. Oral Sex Starter – What man doesn’t enjoy the feel of him inside your mouth? This is a sure pleaser for the opening act.

9. Read Aloud – Reading erotic novels aloud can be a great way to put you in the mood.  You will probably find yourself and partner laughing at the corniness, but may result in the need for a change of undies for you and the pitching of a tent in his as well.

10. Kiss! – Never underestimate the power of the kiss.  

Tips for caring for your lingerie

Our lingerie collections are delicate and should be treated as such. There are a few things that you can do to ensure that your lingerie lasts longer. Lingerie can be very expensive and the last thing that you want is to spend a small fortune for a garment you wear once and then never get to use again because of poor care. Here are a few simple steps to remember.

WASHING - When washing your lingerie try to stick to the washing instructions as best as you can. Lingerie is best hand washed in cool water. Add a soft fabric wash and let your garments soak for a few minutes. Lather them together gently, but do not wring them out. This can bend them out of shape and make the look odd for reuse. Instead, let the water drain as much as possible. If you prefer to use a washing machine for cleaning of your lingerie make sure they are washed inside a lingerie bag. You can buy an inexpensive lingerie bag by clicking on the link. All shapes and sizes are available, it just depends what you require personally. Wash your lingerie separately after every wear.

DRYING - Allow your lingerie to air dry naturally by hanging them inside as if you leave them in the sun for too long whilst drying, they can become sun damaged. Avoid drying your delicate garments in a dryer. The heat will destroy shape and shrink your garments.

STORING - The key is to be gentle. Rough handling of such a delicate item can leave your lingerie ruined for regular use. It is suggested to have a entire draw for only your lingerie garments. Do not just throw them all in together without consideration. Keep in mind that hooks can easily get caught on such delicate materials. By following these simple steps you can keep your lingerie looking like new and holding there original form for much longer.

Valentine’s Day for Long Distance Couples

If you are experiencing a long distance relationship, you are no stranger to the constant longing that the distance causes. Normal days can already be a challenge, but on the special occasions, it can feel unbearable. With Valentine’s Day speedily approaching, it is easy to find yourself dreading the occasion. As your friends are happily planning their evening, you are left thinking about spending it alone. This does not have to be a dreaded occasion. There are ways to celebrate and appreciate this day of romance even if you and your partner are far apart.

Firstly, put time aside for your partner. If you cannot make it to where they are due to finances, be sure to make your partner aware of just how much they mean to you and that you put them first above all on this day that you wish you could be together. The more thought you put into this day, the easier you will make it on your partner.

Find interesting ways to send your partner romantic messages throughout the day, Such as “My thought of the day is you.” Here are some ideas of ways to get these messages to your partner all day long.

• Text Message
• Email
• E-Card
• Mail (via overnight express to guarantee it gets there on time, or alternatively have a mutual friend hand deliver.)
• Send Flowers
• Facebook

These are only a few ideas of an endless amount of possibilities. Be original; try using methods that your partner would never expect, so they don’t see it coming.

Send your partner a care package with little things that will remind them of the love that you both share. You can include a mixed CD of your favorite songs, a teddy bear sprayed with your most used perfume or cologne, a scrapbook full of moments you have shared together, and a Valentine’s Day card expressing your feelings for your partner. For other possible gift ideas for your partner on Valentine’s Day, visit www.confidenceiskeylingerie.com.au Any gesture big or small is going to be received with open arms and a fulfilled heart.

Plan a night of romance with each other even if you cannot physically be together. Have a nice dinner and watch a movie. “Going the Distance” and “Valentine’s Day” are both appropriate ideas for this occasion. Snuggle up with a stuffed animal your partner has given you in the past and take comfort that you are doing something together, even if you cannot see them.

Turn on your webcam and enjoy the sight of your partner as you chat away for hours in a chat room. Or connect with each other on Skype. Make the most of each other’s company and talk as if they are right in front of you. You will appreciate the contact and feel a definite connection.

If it is possible, at the end of the night give your partner a call. Relax in a candle lit bubble bath and take comfort that the last thing you hear that night is the sound of your partners’ voice. This will ensure that any tears that are shed at the end of the night are of the happy variety.

Know How for the Facebook Impaired

Facebook can be confusing for some, but this is no reason to stay clear. As you will discover upon reading this post it is actually very easy to use once you know what you are doing and can also be used successfully by people of all ages. Facebook can be a great source of communicating with friends long since lost and an inexpensive way of staying in contact with loved ones who live far away. It can also pose as an effective advertising tool. Here are a few basic steps to using Facebook effortlessly. The establishment is coming up with new additions all the time so there is always something new to learn and enjoy.

To start off, create your own free account today by visiting www.facebook.com and follow these simple steps to being Facebook savvy with the rest of the world.

As pictured above, firstly we have the home bar at the top of the page. Depending on what version you are using the layout can be slightly different. But the icons will generally have the same meaning.

• The Facebook icon will take you to your home page.
• If you click the speech bubble you can view your messages or send a new one.
• The world symbol is where you can check your notifications.
• The search bar is where you can easily find a current friends page, search for a friend not yet added or search for pages of interest to like.
• The home button is self explanatory and will lead you to your home page.
• If you click on profile or more currently your name, it will lead you to your profile page.
• Later versions have a find friends button which gives you a list of suggestions of people you may know.
• The arrow icon drops down giving you the option of viewing your account settings, viewing privacy settings, logging out, or for those of you who are really struggling there is even a HELP option.

This is basically all for the home bar. Next we have the side

section on the left hand side. By clicking on your name this will direct you to your profile page.

In the favorites section you have:

• News feed which is basically the home page that shows you the current updates of what your friends and family have been up to. The most current is on the top, the further you read the more time that has passed since their update.
• Messages is where you can view your current messages and conversations with friends, or alternatively send a new one.
• Events holds events that you have been invited to. Facebook will send you event notifications when you have been invited to an event. Then you can accept or decline. Your accepted or unanswered events can be viewed here.
• Find Friends tab is where you can find friends through different avenues such as MSN, hotmail, bigpond and yahoo, just to name a few.

The left hand side bar also shows easy access tabs to your current applications, pages and divides your added friends into categories such as close friends and family. If you click on these lists you can view only your family on your news feed or visa versa.

Next we have the far right hand side bar.

• The top section shows the actions of your friends and family as they happen.
• Directly under this is a list of friends and family. The people with green dots beside them represent that they are available to chat. If you want to chat to this person just click on their name and it will open up a chat window at the bottom of your screen. Then you just type what you want to say and press enter to send it. Conversations you have can now be viewed in messages in the latest version of Facebook. Keeping in mind that some people may be using their phone to view Facebook and be unaware of your messages because they have not received notification. Do not automatically assume that they are avoiding you.

• The right hand side bar is not as important in the learning land of Facebook. However it does show you information such as birthdays on that day and sponsored adverts and recommended pages.

The final teaching in my blog today is probably the most important, which is your profile page. Underneath your profile picture you will find a list. Here is what each item means:

• The 2people side by side icon is where you can view your friend requests.
• The wall tab is most handy. This is where you can update your status to let your friends and family know what you have been up to, add photos and even document locations that you are in the point in time. The bar that says "what's on your mind" is where you type your status update. It is as simple as typing and then pressing post to share. The little person with the plus sign is where you can tag people in your updates and the cone is where you can select the place you are at the time of updating.

• In the info tab you can edit things such as work and education history, contact information, relationship status and interests.
• In the photos tab you can find all your photos you have added and photos that others have tagged you in.
• The notes tab allows you to see notes that you have added and the ability to add
• notes as well.
• By clicking on the friends tab you will get a list of the friends you currently have on facebook.

• 

To write on someone's wall, simply click on their name and type what you would like to say in the "write something" box underneath their name, information and picture row.

Now that you have the low down on the basics of Facebook mechanics why not create an account and get facebooking. Word of warning, this can become very addictive.

Please feel free to visit my Facebook page and like and share with your friends by following this link:

• https://www.facebook.com/pages/Confidence-Is-Key-Lingerie/259601310722949

Like and share options can be found at the bottom of the left hand side bar of this page. Happy Facebooking!

Joining the blogging world

My name is Ann-Marie Boland and I am the director of Confidence Is Key Lingerie. I have always been fascinated with lingerie and it has been an ongoing dream to have my own Lingerie store.

Early 2011 I began loading my cupboard with stock items in the hope that by the end of the year I would have my own Lingerie Website up and running. In November that year, that's exactly what I had achieved. Now it is just a matter of getting my name out there and spreading my belief that confidence is the key to sexiness.

I have decided to begin this blog to share my interest with others and ultimately touch on those subjects of importance to woman, whether it be how to be confident in the bedroom down to the types of Lingerie suited to each body type.

It all started with the simple thought that with a little bit of confidence every woman no matter their size could look stunning in Lingerie. At Confidence is Key Lingerie, we want you to feel and look your best. We try to offer as many designs as possible to suit your idea of perfect Lingerie. We offer a variety of lingerie styles to suit all shapes including Babydolls, Corsets, Bra and Skirt Sets, Teddies and even the Fantasy Play for when you really want to test your confidence.

Always remember, a little bit of confidence goes a long way!