Tips to add spice to your relationship

It is easy to become stuck in a rut in a relationship, particularly if you have been together for a long time. In order to keep your relationship strong you cannot afford to lose the spark that ignited when you first got together. Do not let the rut and routine of life, interfere with your relationship. By following these tips you can keep the spark alive in your relationship.

Take sex out of the bedroom – Take the predictability out of your sex life and move it out of the bedroom. Be spontaneous and make a new purpose for the other rooms in your house! Tables and benches have more uses then you may think.

Join your partner in the shower – Sometimes there is no better way to end the day, then to have your partner wash you in the shower. It is a sensual act that can perform as foreplay, so expect to need a couple of showers that night.

Turning Average games into strip ones – Get out your old board/card games that are sitting there collecting dust and for every game or round you play that your partner looses, they are demanded to take a piece of clothing off. The loser that ends up naked gets to have a taste of what it’s like to be a winner, by being rewarded with removing the remaining clothes on their partner.

Send your partner naughty messages, photos or videos – Sometimes it can be as simple as a raunchy text message to let your partner know that you wish they were with you. Send teasing messages throughout the day and get the benefits when they arrive home with built up anticipation from your message, photo or video. Let go of your insecurities and have some fun.

Lock Lips as often as you can – Break routine and instead of your regular good morning or goodnight kisses, surprise your partner throughout the day with spontaneous kisses. Even though this is something small, kisses can often be the first thing to disappear in a long term relationship. By avoiding this; it can also be a simple way to keep the spark alive.

Stop thinking about time – If you and your partner do not get into bed until very late, stop worrying about how tired you will be in the morning if you respond to the advances of your partner. Let go and have fun! I guarantee the smile on your face alone will get you through the following day, no matter how late you got to sleep.

Add Lingerie to your wardrobe – A lingerie set can show your partner that you are still willing to make the effort to excite them and can also leave the wearer feeling as sexy as they ever have. There is nothing like the feeling of watching your partner react to the revealing garments. They may not stay on long, but they are worth the flaunting. Visit www.confidenceiskeylingerie.com.au for a great range of affordable lingerie.

Bring in the toys – Instead of continuously doing what you are comfortable with in the bedroom, why not try new things. Try taking toys into the equation. Alternatively, if you are not comfortable with this try out new positions or watch a naughty movie.

Try your best to keep things interesting in a relationship. The longer you have been together the more effort you have to put in, because less things are new in the relationship. Make it a daily point to show your partner that they are still as important to you as when you first got together.