Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Person

Not everyone we date is going to turn out to be the love of our lives.  Relationships fail for many reasons and just because you have found someone to share your life with, does not mean that they are the right person for you.  Here are a few hints that you are dating the wrong person.

Unhappiness – If you are unhappy in a relationship there really is no point in sticking around waiting for that day that you will be happy within it. The right person for you would not leave you in a constant state of unhappiness. 

Walking on eggshells – If you feel like you cannot be yourself around your partner, then what is the point really? You want them to be in love with you, not the censored version of yourself that you are to please them.

Embarrassment – If you are ashamed to introduce your partner to your friends and family, chances are he/she is not the right person for you.

No dreaming of the future – If you never find yourself envisioning a future with your partner by your side, then there is a good chance that deep down inside you don’t think there is one.

No Common Grounds – If you and your partner have nothing in common then sooner or later your differences will become between you and break you apart.

Unexcited – If you don’t get excited at the idea of seeing or speaking to your partner then you are missing one serious ingredient to a passionate relationship.

Instincts want out – If your gut is telling you that this relationship is going no-where or isn’t for you, then more often than not your inner mind is trying to tell you that you are not happy with the person you are with.

Disrespect – You do not want to feel disrespected within your relationship. Respect is an important must in any partnership and will not work if this is missing.

Unsupported – If you find your partner fails to support you in your goals and accomplishments then you will always have the since of failing in life in general.

Last Priority – If you come across as last priority on their list and are only ever wanted when it suits them, then they are not the right person for you.


Do not stay in a relationship merely because you think that you don't deserve any better or that you will end up old and alone.  Sometimes all it takes is that distance and time to focus on yourself to make you realize that you are in a pointless relationship.  It is better to be alone for a while then to be taken for granted and being short changed of the love and passion you truly deserve. 

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